a quiz (from plhu as usual)

the Peacemaker Test finished!

you chose BX - your Enneagram type is NINE. "I am at peace" Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them. How to Get Along with Me - If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure. - I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this. - Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit. - Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally. - Ask me questions to help me get clear. - Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery. - Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings. - I like a good discussion but not a confrontation. - Let me know you like what I've done or said. - Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life. What I Like About Being a Nine - being nonjudgmental and accepting - caring for and being concerned about others - being able to relax and have a good time - knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around - my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator - my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now - being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe What's Hard About Being a Nine - being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive - being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline - being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally - being confused about what I really want - caring too much about what others will think of me - not being listened to or taken seriously Nines as Children Often - feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant - tune out a lot, especially when others argue - are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves Nines as Parents - are supportive, kind, and warm - are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid

Hmm, some parts really do feel quite right.
But I don't think I felt ignored as a child. No, I'm sure I didn't.
Not too sure about the hug though. Physical affection, yes, but always give me things in graduation k.

The parents part sounds worrying. Haha.